Deut. 23: 24, "When you enter your neighbor's vineyard, then you may eat grapes until you are fully satisfied, but you shall not put any in your basket."

Be gracious but never greedy or presumptuous.  It was a common practice that if you were in your neighbor's vineyard you could taste their fruit, even to the point of being satisfied. This was acceptable, but eat no more.  Never over eat at your neighbor's or take advantage of the hospitality.  Always be able to walk away from things offered rather than taking more than you should.  If people offer you something to eat do not reject their hospitality, for that would be as rude as taking too much.  To reject their food preparation was an insult of their work and labors, but when you accept, you affirm them in it and bless them because of it.

We must live a balanced life in being able to accept blessings as well as give blessings.  If you visit a home, allow someone to offer you some of their desserts and be sure to thank them and bless them; never reject their hospitality or the other extreme, eat up all their food!  The grateful heart knows how to give "and" also knows how to receive!  Jesus said it is more blessed to give than receive, but that does not mean that we should not also graciously "receive."  Find ways to accept the kindnesses of others with grace and kindness.  Find ways to bless others with grace and kindness.  Those who know the balance understand and practice the obedience of hospitality.

In Christ,
Tommy Middleton

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